it's been a long wait to finally meet up with my other wacky half that i share many similar opinions with.
yes, that is gloria. She is the kind of person i never really expected to be friends with because basically we just have really contrasting personalities i guess, well in some sense yes?
She is, well, different in a good kind of way. She has different and twisted sort of ways to the logic of this society and looks at mainstream things in a totally different light.
And yeah, she doesn't really believe in following trends and she just lets her own principles guide her through life.
Well, in that sense i am pretty much like her. We both same similar sentiments towards people around us and have weird and wacky conversations i pretty much don't understand after i look back at the conversations.
Nowadays, people say, weird is the new cool. And well, it is. But i truly believe that no one is weird in a certain sense, they just choose to follow the norm and think a certain event in a certain way.
When one individual looks at a certain matter in a different way, that person is deemed weird(?) in a good way or funny?? I don't even understand when i make my remarks differently about certain issues, my friends find it funny???
Well, back to point. It's honestly been around 8 years since i've known Gloria. But i've only interacted with her very closely for like 2 years i guess....?
It's really contradicting in some sense, we were in the same class for around 5 years and we never had a chance to mingle around and talk, well partly because we were in different groups and didn't gather together much.
And we did get much closer after graduation, which is pretty ironic in its own sense sometimes.
To be honest, i honestly have really wacky ideas of my own most of the time but nah, i either voice it out and get called lame or funny by my friends HAHA.
My friend asked to be a comedian before and honestly, i was flabbergasted, like what? That was my honest opinion in some sense but i don't kind of get why it is funny?????
Just quoting though, i named my handicraft horse the intergalatic horse mascot, IGHM for short and put a portable horn on it because i thought it was really cool and my friends thought it was funny? Honestly, i myself think it's funny too, but was it really that funny??????? (emphasise on that though)
The funny thing is that when i told gloria, she just agreed with me, that hey it's pretty cool and there's nothing wrong with doing different things than others.
I used to be a very follow the norm person, until i realised that sometimes, it is definitely better to just follow your own heart, because that just means becoming like a piece of grass in a field when you pretty much just want to be a flower.
So it hit me really hard when i knew gloria's character like oh my how can you have such contrasting thinking from other people? After interacting with her for around 5 months, during work and on social media and face to face, i realised she is doing things her way, and that really inspired in some way, that hey i want to be like her too and have a unique character instead of just fitting in.
I want to be remembered as a unique individual, not as a usual person in the crowd.
Ironic isn't it? People want to be unique yet here they are trying their very best to follow the trends and do things that are considered trends.
Personally, there is no need to adhere to those trends, you don't really need it in some sense because you should really just do what makes you comfortable.
Wow, it just surprises me how gloria and her uniquely different behaviour can affect me so much......
Well, thank you i guess, for inspiring me that much and allowing me to really open my sights of this world and not just live in my little bubble.
You really are a friend out of this world.
